How do I set boundaries with friends who overshare? » QA Realm

How do I set boundaries with friends who overshare? » QA Realm: How do I set boundaries with friends who overshare? » QA Realm

How Can I Differentiate Between Supporting a Friend in Crisis and Chronic Oversharing?

This distinction is vital. Supporting a friend in a genuine crisis is typically time-bound, proportionate to the situation, and involves mutual care. Chronic oversharing, however, is a persistent pattern where the sharing feels compulsive, one-directional, and focused on dumping emotions rather than seeking solutions or mutual connection. Key indicators include: the conversations leave you feeling drained and anxious; the topics are consistently highly intense (trauma, constant drama); and there is little reciprocity or space for your experiences. In a crisis, you can offer temporary, increased support with a clear end in sight. With chronic oversharing, a structural boundary about frequency or topic is necessary for sustainability.

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